YOU ATTRACT THIS IN YOUR LIFE BECAUSE.....

When you’ve had to disown parts of yourself as a child, as an adult, you’ll attract this.

It’s very annoying because, in most cases, it pisses you off.

You will meet people who are reflections of whom we have suppressed, denied, rejected and disowned, and when we do, we will initially feel attracted to them.

But then the work begins. If you are lucky enough to figure this out about yourself early and deal with or do your inner work around the relationships you currently have, it can be an incredible healing journey and a blessing.

But if you can’t, it will be a disaster, life will constantly be challenging, and lessons will repeatedly turn up in your life or you will do what we see sadly these days is numb the pain.

You will go throughout this lifetime here on earth, which is one of the most challenging but beautiful places to experience as a human, many are trying to incarnate here with no luck. The line up is huge. It's a blessing you are here in this moment. When you pass on, you will come back and have to learn the lessons all over again.

So instead of avoiding any feelings or what you see . Today, when anybody triggers you, annoys you, or pisses you off, ask yourself where in me what and why this is happening.

We are attracted to someone with a quality we don’t have anymore because that quality was a part of our personality once when we were children; at some point, it was attacked or rejected by our parents or caregivers, maybe even another adult who was around us a lot. It could have even been a neighbor that you have forgotten about. So what do you do, you reject it, but at the same time, you miss it.

Because the qualities and gifts you were born with we’re put down, we don’t care for it at this moment, because the whole journey here is to remember, but because that quality of you was a part of you at one time, it is still attractive to you, because it is you.

We now have mixed feelings about that quality of the person standing in front of you, like ambivalence towards them.

At some point, in the beginning, this was very attractive to you; I often get people who love me in the beginning when they meet me and then hate me in the end because we’re mirrors and I show parts of themselves in me and through me about aspects of themselves they’ve suppressed.

Whether it be my confidence, my loudness, my outgoingness, my faith, how I sexually express myself, my resilience whatever is defined as the word you want to use, find the word for yourself that annoys you about me or others and then look within yourself and find out what that means.

It could even be sexual; we are well-rounded spirits if you're a born female. I do many things from my sacral centres; this could trigger something in someone, if this had to be suppressed as a child—anything to do with love and sexual desire.

I am your life lesson and you are mine. If you meet me or the people around you, know they’re all just lessons.

Here's the other thing, you will find some humans live out life with not having to do any of this. As humans there are layers and levels of consciousness to us. Some stay stuck and go know where having to come to earth in another life to learn it out again. While others like you and I pass through the passages of consciousness, so we don't have to come back. The purpose here is bigger than you think. If you are interested about learning more about where you maybe in your consciousness click the link below.

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Understanding this could help you navigate your mental health faster, because you won’t be defensive or reactive as much throughout your day. You’ll be able to look at other humans from a different aspect of where you usually looked, like outside of yourself, blaming others. But instead now look within yourself.

Some relationships are played out longer than others. People you work with and play with are our lessons to learn more about ourselves than you think while you’re here as a physical being.

I know it will go over some heads reading this, but if you understand why you’re here, this will make more sense as to why things happen and make life more tolerable .

Here’s what I’ve learned, studying the brain, You have “ONE” brain and three minds, this is what I have come up with, conscious, unconscious and subconscious. I know, right? Crazy, you’re not alone even when you think you are. You have much "mind" stuff going on. Navigating the brain, I believe, it is one of the keys to living in peace and living out your life to its fullest.

Understanding which part of the mind you’re using throughout your days and lifetime will help you move through life and people much more quickly. Also will save you a ton of heartache.

If you need help understanding this more, I am currently coaching one-on-one where we can take a deep dive for an hour into where, why, what, and how you think and where it’s all coming from. Click the link below.

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Before I leave you, here’s an example;

If we merely choose people we get along with, we tend to select similar ones just like us, but if we choose those we are attracted to, our conscious mind tends to kick in and lead us down paths we probably wouldn’t take.

If only we knew subconsciously what we were doing, often those paths lead to our opposites. The reason is that if you were to understand the brain and all the minds we have, you would be able to make better decisions and come from a place that serves you now instead of from decisions from old core beliefs.

The conscious mind which can accept and reject information, It's the now part of us. The awareness. If you didn't know this about yourself, for example if someone comes to you with an idea or thought, in the moment you can either consciously choose to accept the idea or reject it, but what the majority of people do, they accept every idea that comes to them.

Someone comes to you and you accept the idea, you get mad maybe even defensive. But you have the conscious ability to completely reject that thought. So next time somebody says something, understand that it's a hundred percent on you and you can completely reject the thought. Just like your reading this now you're gathering information through your conscious mind. You can choose to accept it or not. The conscious mind is the present the subconscious is the past and you can change it at anytime, I know how it works and its easier than you think.

You can at anytime reject or accept any information in the moment crazy right, even the stuff you see on tv or movies. It’s the thinking mind, the educated mind; however, the other mind in our brain is the subconscious mind, which is deductive. It must accept, and it cannot reject. It can only take. It’s our emotional mind and will express whatever is impressed upon it, meaning anything from your childhood, and old core beliefs. It’s the same program running behind the scenes and mostly running your life.

Most people are functioning on the Subconscious, not the Conscious. Constantly going about their day validating all the old shit that doesn't serve you anymore.

People will be in relationships that aren’t good and think to themselves the next time I'm in a relationship; I'm not going to do ____________. Yet, for some reason, you tend to fall back into that lousy relationship every time.

It’s because there’s a old core belief about yourself you have to work on. It feels like home, but it’s not. If you grew up with different parents, you would probably be in very different relationships.

You’ve heard that saying where people say I always seem to find the bad guy; you need to change your core beliefs because your subconscious is setting you up with the bad guy. Opposites attract. Remember that. It’s a good thing I guess, But we need to be aware of it so you can work in harmony and be in balance in your relationships and in life.

You’re educated, and you know better from the conscious mind but that is only 5% of where you live. You can have all kinds of knowledge; people know smoking is terrible, but they still do it, people know about what to eat and what not to eat or they'll not gain weight.

You see so many people who you think are very educated, read a lot, and practice certain things, maybe even have lots of money, do yoga, are spiritual, but they're in dysfunctional relationships and live unhealthy chaotic lives. It’s like cognitive dissonance when you see somebody who represents one aspect of life but doesn’t in other parts of life. Talk is cheap. So if you ever want to know whether somebody has embodied it, instead of listening to what they say, watch what they do.

I hope this helps you in some way, I'm here for a bigger purpose my job isn't easy I know this now. I'm the light to show you dark not dark that shows you light .

Cheers.

kat xo