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TURNING THE BIG "50"




Things I have come to learn in my 50 years on planet earth as a 3D human being. I can also write about what it was like and at what point I began to spiritually awake and live in the 4d and 5d world. When these 3 worlds collided it's pretty humbling.


Anytime you're reading someones else's stuff, keep this in mind. Take what resinates and leave the rest. Bare no judgement because the judgement you feel is also with in you. Wink, wink. First Tip! Having an open mind and being flexible in learning will get you farther than you think.


Not in particular order, I say this because pen to paper and I just let flow what comes up.


I may add this to as time goes on, so check back.


  1. Happiness is an inside job.

  2. Cultivate self awareness

  3. Everything is temporary

  4. People, Places and Things. People "choose wisely", places "go to", things "are just things don't get attached".

  5. Have conversations with yourself, like serious ones. It may take a few days for the answers but you'll get one and it will be the right one if you are tuned in to the proper channel.

  6. Always say yes to the things that bring you joy and no to the things that don't.

  7. Understand that you're not for everyone

  8. Choose a life partner using values, vibes, morals, and character, not age, or height or culture.

  9. Write down your idea of what success is to you every 5 years, reflect because it will change and be flexible to that.

  10. You're as hot as you think you are. Shape shift.

  11. Where ever you go take yourself with you.

  12. Don't live in a box. This will limit you.

  13. Under stand theres 2 sides to you. Human and spiritual, get to know both of them.

  14. Make friends with your shadow side.

  15. You have a consciousness and theres different levels, challenge yourself to do them all.

  16. People come and go. reasons, seasons and a lifetime.

  17. Be ok with change learn to adapt.

  18. Know your colour palette.

  19. Keep good hygiene.

  20. Trust your gut its your first brain.

  21. When someones asks you to do something you always know the answer, human default will get in the way, but if you go with the first answer that comes up for you, you'll save yourself some time, money and aging.

  22. Undue all the old programming from your child hood from parents or caregivers.

  23. Take vitamins and minerals your body is declining everyday.

  24. Change your bedding once a week.

  25. Deli-gate if you don't like cleaning hire a cleaner, don't sit in your own filth.

  26. Your brain can be your worst nightmare and enemy learn to master.

  27. Only do work you love, be inconvenience for a short while, because sometimes to get what you want, Thats what it takes.

  28. Your first language is body language. learn it well.

  29. Master-bating is normal, and we are all freaks when we're alone. If you cant get yourself off don't expect anyone else to either.

  30. Be careful who you hug, energy clings.

  31. Learn to regulate your nervous system, dogs do it by shaking you can too!

  32. Know your blood type.

  33. Do one hard or scary thing a year.

  34. Blood is not thicker than water, if your family is not right leave.

  35. Do all things in moderation.

  36. Critical thinking and question everything. Don't take anyones word even though they have letters in front of their name.

  37. No matter who you are you cant do it all by yourself.

  38. Emotional Intelligence will get you places in life.

  39. Volunteer.

  40. Re-Invent yourself often.

  41. Take your LIFE more serious than your CAREER.

  42. How people feel about you isn't about you.

  43. Take Naps. lots of them.

  44. Take all the pictures and videos.

  45. Soul Search.

  46. Where ever you are make that place feel like home.

  47. Know your comforts in life.

  48. Adopt the pace of mother nature, go with the season where ever you live.

  49. Learn to adapt.

  50. Find your passion then find away to make money from it.

  51. The quieter you become the more you can hear.

  52. Learn to walk alone. Physically on earth byt spiritually with god.

  53. All your answer are within.

  54. Keep your own promises, this is where you loose confidence in life if you don't.

  55. Adopt a lifestyle you want.

  56. When adulting you'll never feel your age, its because it doesn't really exist. Also adulting happens to other people (wink wink)

  57. FEAR is not real.

  58. If someone did you can too!

  59. Watch what you say the universe is listening, it conspires everyday for you.Positive or negative.

  60. Limit how long you stay mad for.

  61. First time marry for love, Second time marry for money.

  62. Never be late for anything.

  63. Learn how to romanticize your life. This will get you through the tough days.

  64. When you get the nudge listen.

  65. Change your diet and way of eating every 10 years.

  66. People will only love or like you to the extent you love and like yourself.

  67. Your thoughts become your reality

  68. Never ignore the first red flag, don't be a red flag collector

  69. Make yourself easy to love.

  70. Check yourself

  71. Your defiantly are who you hang with. enery and vibes are a real thing.

  72. The choices you make when your younger, effect you when your older.

  73. Doom scrolling is a thing

  74. Learn the universal laws

  75. Money is energy

  76. Understand and have awareness for the generation you were born in

  77. That your hormones control most of your life, unless you're aware of this you'll be very confused

  78. 2 types of people in the world the living dead and the living

  79. If you cant control or fix it in 5 minutes don't worry about it.

  80. Stress will kill you and age you .

  81. Your genetics determines a lot about you

  82. To make money in life, live doing the things you desire, the money will follow

  83. Be open to receive any and all ways

  84. Theres no such thing as mental illness, its an illusion and a detriment to the human body.

  85. Dreams are information

  86. That even though i'm 50 I still have many years ahead, ask a 75 year old lmao.

  87. Taking time for the small things in life will keep you present.

  88. Buy yourself flowers often.

  89. Your body does start to hurt.

  90. Your neck is one of the first things you notice about aging.

  91. Smells and bodily fluids change and leak.

  92. Diet is very important its mostly now how much you realize.

  93. Going to the Doctor is scarier than when you were a kid.

  94. Now I understand what my mom said

  95. You start to become a believer in GOD

  96. Hormones run most of your life learn about them

  97. Study the moon, sun and stars it effects your behaviour

  98. If you happen to find your best friend, ride or die as a woman on this planet cherish her, understand that woman have a human default that makes them be nasty towards other woman. It's just nature. Its in our DNA.

  99. You take off your rose coloured glasses at some point, and see things for what they truly are.

  100. Lastly for this segment transporting to earth as a woman is a really great gift. Theres 4 types of woman on this planet, and if you watched sex and the city you'll know. choose which one you are and be that 'woman' to the best of your ability.


I could go on maybe I can do segments, because turning 50 as a woman compared to a man is very different.


Hope you enjoyed this off the top of my head entry, and leave a comment on things you've learned as you approach 50.






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My name is Katrina, and I am the founder of Love Life & Living Free. I started this blog because I love to write about things I have experienced in life and share them in the hopes that they may help or inspire someone else along the way. Since my weight loss journey of losing over 90 pounds, I would get asked how I did it and when it started. It all started years ago. Since then, I have attracted a few hundred like-minded souls by telling my stories. I have a passion for helping others in all facets of life, not just in weight loss but anything to do with life and anything to do with just being a woman of this century, like how i moved across the country. So I thought, why not create something people can go to in their free time whenever they feel like they need some personal direction, inspiration or tips.

 

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