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THEY WON'T ALL LIKE YOU



The more you shine, the more shadows you cast.


I have a way of triggering the shit out of people just by my presence. I don’t even have to say a word most of the time; my energy just on its own sends some people wondering what the heck is going on. I've even had spiritual leaders I've sat with say; you make me want to pee. Like I get the system flowing. It's a lot, and my frequency can be a lot. So hold tight. Take a minute to turn to the right channel and read with an open mind. Maybe this is not for you, and perhaps you might have to come back later at another time. That's fine. Happens all the time. Some are ready, and some are not. Like baby steps, some walk early some walk late.

Here’s the thing, though, "I get that not everyone will like me." My job on this earth is not to have everyone like me; same for you. It’s no one’s job, yet people apply for it like it’s their business. I will do another blog on how you can know if someone doesn't like you but stays in your life and how you still allow it. Because I can bet some of you have people in your life who shouldn't be there. Yes, including in your family.

UNDERSTAND THIS ABOUT THE HUMAN SPECIES!


WHAT ARE THEIR MOTIVES, AND WHAT ARE THEIR BEHAVIORS?


When you get this, your life will become much more manageable. We're here to gain from each other, and it always isn't tangible. It's primarily energetic; it's what feeds the soul. Feed the soul or feed the ego. Know and understand that we all have this within us, which speaks to us daily. Feed the wrong one, and your life will become tough and challenging.

When you see the first sign of ick, don’t take that as a challenge. It’s not. Don’t make that your lesson, and dive deep into the trenches when you don’t have to. So many do. Then call it a lesson and say it’s why I’m here to learn this hard lesson, yes, to learn and understand the lesson but not hard.


The lesson was meant to be subtle, not painful. You've taken it too far, and part of the brain took over. Getting that back is hard and can lead you to challenging and painful places. Save yourself from ever getting to that point. Save yourself from the hard knocks of life and challenging battles. You are here to see how many and fast you stay out of the trenches. You get signs long before you are in deep.

Practise navigating what comes at you, like swiping on a dating app. Sometimes you're alone, and sometimes you have all kinds of people with you.

Suppose the world and your life are a game, and obstacles are constantly thrown at you. Just because they're there doesn’t mean you have to accept them. The barriers and challenges can be from newborns to the elderly. It never ends.

When I look back at some of my challenges and choices, I think, wow, if I’d invited that in my life, what a disaster. The universe won't show you immediately what can and will come of it, not only until you accept it. If you don't get it, then and only then, it will show you in plain site, and you'll go, holy shit, I dodged a bullet. It is at this point that you congratulate yourself and move on quickly and Hit the next challenge.

It is my and your responsibility and due diligence to manage this. It's all ours, no one else's. If you blame another human for your pain and suffering, you will get more pain and suffering in the future, and it will come to you with love and be sugar-coated and eventually crush you in the end. Tell me I'm wrong. Think back to all your pain and people. Did they come in thick with syrup only to be diluted later on into water?

If you’re in a shit place, you made shit choices. Sit with that and let it flow thru you. Where and what are your weaknesses?

Someone like me comes along and somehow mirrors you, and for the first time, you see it. Bam, it hits you like a freight train. It's a lot, I know; it's hard to take at first but sit with it. Anytime this happens to you, sit with it. Feel it and let your mind and body speak to you. The answers are all there. Remember, I'm an obstacle full of energy for you to feel and see your challenges, weaknesses, and things you need to work on. Do the inner work, not the trench work. Instead of hating the person standing before you, look at yourself first. What is here that I need to see?

This is how it works- the universe sends you shit, you don’t see the shit flag, and you accept it in your life. The universe says ok, now I’m going to put a bunch of other people in your life to show you. Let’s see how long this dumb ass takes to figure it out. Sometimes it takes a minute, and most often, for most people, it takes a lifetime.

The point is that little nudge or feeling you get for a split second of hell, that's it. You get it in the very beginning, and it's the only sign you need to get. Don’t play it out for long; not part of your life or not for all of your life. You know when good people are around you and when their not.

I’m 48- 49 in April this year, and I have people I know the same age still learning hard lessons. Lessons are good to learn but not hard ones.

How is that happening? Because they didn’t take the first sign. Remember, just because it was presented before you doesn’t mean it was meant for you, even if it feels like it could be good. Don't be fooled. Just like if someone offered you something you didn’t like, you didn’t say, " Oh, ok, I’ll eat this even though I don’t like it. You got the first sign, and you made a choice and decision right away. You didn’t keep sitting there shoving the food in your face. Also, I'd like to add that listening to which place you are coming from is it coming from a wounded place. This is a topic for another blog so stay tuned.



SO HERE'S YOUR LESSON practice when you're triggered to feel it. Let all of it run thru your body; see where it stops and which part of the body—for example, your head, shoulders, throat, and maybe your stomach. Listening and feeling this will help you navigate what's meant for you. Once you feel where it stops, the next thing is understanding what that means. I will be writing another blog about just that. If you've made it this far, you'll be ok. This information isn't meant for everyone because I'm not here to please everyone.


The second lesson is to embody it and take action. Start to practise it today. Many people read and take information in but have yet to apply it or practise it. You will lose people, yes, and you will feel at times not good, like maybe you made the wrong decision; all kinds of feelings will come up. Get used to this. That will pass; you will thank yourself for it after a day. Keep practising it, make a promise to yourself, and listen to it. Take note of when these situations come up. That way, you'll start to notice them sooner and faster.


This is when you will begin to start "LOVING LIFE AND LIVING FREE."


P.S. I'd like to thank you for taking the time to read my blog and support me. I appreciate you. Cheers.

 
 
 

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My name is Katrina, and I am the founder of Love Life & Living Free. I started this blog because I love to write about things I have experienced in life and share them in the hopes that they may help or inspire someone else along the way. Since my weight loss journey of losing over 90 pounds, I would get asked how I did it and when it started. It all started years ago. Since then, I have attracted a few hundred like-minded souls by telling my stories. I have a passion for helping others in all facets of life, not just in weight loss but anything to do with life and anything to do with just being a woman of this century, like how i moved across the country. So I thought, why not create something people can go to in their free time whenever they feel like they need some personal direction, inspiration or tips.

 

I am excited to have a platform like this to express and write. After all, 45 years of being on this earth means I have been through a few things; we are all just having that, an experience and one i am happy to share with you.

 

It may help "YOU" get through some of your struggles wherever you happen to be in this moment, young or old.

 

This site is not a one-stop-shop, so you know! It's packed with many things, and maybe, just maybe, it will direct you to lead a more fulfilling and free life that you deserve. 

 

You can Live Free and, of course, Love life today.

 

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This blog is written for entertainment purposes only. I am not a professional in any way, shape or form, meaning the information is from my research and the knowledge I have gained throughout the years.  All these blogs are through my own experience. The report found here are my opinions and other readers' opinions and should not be taken as professional advice. I try to only post about things I think will be helpful to my readers and that I have experienced myself with. Still, anything that happens as a result of you using the information provided is your responsibility alone. 

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