THE PRIMAL FEMININE DESIRE

I work in this posh store a few days a week. I needed to get out more doing something that would shift my energy and perspective and meet new people again.

At the same time, I’m working on figuring out what business I want to have next. I have an idea, but we’ll see. I'm an Entrepreneur by nature; it's not often I work for someone else, so this will be interesting.

My feminine essence desires me to create my own things; I've always worked for myself. Working for someone else is usually something I do for a short time, often a transition or a shake; it seems to get the juices flowing. Unless I fall into something that allows me to be more of myself naturally. For example, aside from working in this boutique, I have a client that describes what I do to his friends, and it goes like this. It's like she's my wife, but we don't have sex. What I do for him is what a stay-at-home mom and wife would do, and I love it.

ANYWAYS, the point of this post is that most women, not all but a lot, when we talk while they shop, I'll ask, depending on the client, what do you do for work? They giggle and say nothing; I stay home. 😉 take care of a few things, and that's it.

I hand them their bag of stuff after they just dropped a thousand dollars or so on themselves and watch them walk out, thinking she’s got it figured out. These women are classy and very well put together—Black Metal credit cards (if you know, you know). 😉

I realize nowadays that being a so-called kept woman or a stay-at-home mom or wife is frowned upon because, for decades, women were told this and then had to fight for our rights back in the day to get us some of the stuff we were "allowed" to do today. But let me tell you, these new stay-at-home moms and wives have it figured out. If you can pull that off and, given what we have access to today, you're laughing. It's the new age kind of magic. No, they were not kept in the kitchen all day, either. Lots have their own stuff on the side going on.

Some of them have ways of making money, working in the family business when their time permits, working in groups and communities with like-minded women, being creative and not because they have to, but because they can and have support and help if they need it.

These women are creating their own lives smarter, not harder. Not enough of us are jumping on this bandwagon. We have a block stopping us from being more intelligent about it, instead worrying about how we will look in society.

These women have been able to step into all the areas that feminine woman desires. They can be playful, sex kittens and lightworkers, divine, delicious, alluring, and so on because they have to space to do so.

I suspect those young girls and, nowadays, older women with sugar daddies choose these types of men because they desire this lifestyle. Finding a vanilla guy and dating them is hard, especially if your wants and needs go more with having a man be the provider.

Dating men for an arrangement is like practising this lifestyle, and It’s a win-win for both, like dipping your toes in. Both desire their role to be played out in a way that works for them. I’ll add that there are a lot of feminine women and masculine men doing it like this these days.

The ladies are open and willing to receive, while the men love to give. It’s all a primal instinct. When played well together, it works, regardless of whether we have an idea in our head that it’s right. Don't get me wrong; I'm not encouraging every woman to run out and get a sugar daddy, but if this is the lifestyle you desire, then start making the changes in your life so you can have that one day; I've just observed this type of dating, and some ladies, are pleased with it.

It always stems back to our primal instinct. Everything about being a woman is receiving, opening up, and creating; you’ve heard that giving a woman a house. She’ll make it home, give a woman ingredients. She’ll make you a meal etc.

I believe that women's confusion and unhappy lives these days are that most cannot step into their primal roles of the feminine desire truly and authentically—lots of masking and solo protecting.

The reason we’re out here on earth is to create a place of peace and harmony to be divine feminine and divine masculine. It’s been frowned upon for decades. Women are working in careers that are destroying the very essence of what it is to be a woman. Men have to dumb down. I believe that is why we have a lot of genders reversing and confusion going on. No one knows anymore what role to live out.

Whichever hormone chemically you release from your body the most, you behave that way. I know more women who live in their masculine than in their feminine. It’s so sad. It is like a crime these days to be whom we are naturally supposed to be. WE’VE FORGOTTEN, so by doing things that lower and raise our hormones, we’re a hot mess.

I always think there are tribes now living out how we are authentically supposed to live. Pink jobs and blue jobs, yes, I said. There are things that the female and the male are good at, and just because you can do them doesn't mean we all should. I mean, we’re not put on this planet to be workhorses and work in economies of consumerism and be stuck in jobs and careers that we hate, not women anyway.

The masculine energies created this environment, and the (Tom Ford) idea of working the 9 to 5, is old stuff which doesn’t suit our lives and today's lifestyle anymore. We still do many things that don’t fit anything we’re capable of doing, and Still, we do it because we have to make ends meet, and many women are doing it while also providing for their children.

Can you imagine what it would be like in a world where men were frowned upon if they didn’t care for their families and just left them? As women, we are frowned upon if we do this behaviour.

We live in a man’s world, and no matter how hard women try to be equal or convince the world that we are the same and can do it all, we’ll struggle and be put in situations that will create mental health illnesses and diseases.

Instead, if women could create their communities and inside jobs, we’d all have better, fulfilling lives. A world is more suitable to feminine desires.

This would allow women to step into the dark feminine, where the magic happens. We could take over the world. Think of Cleopatra and Marilyn Monroe, women of the day; when men saw the power we have, they put a stop to it and made changes that they know are not suited to the feminine desire; these women could make men drop to their knees and literally can get them to do anything they wanted.

Tapping into your dark feminine is a skill, and it’s a very, very powerful skill.

It would be at this point in history if every woman were in the mindset of dark feminine where the tables would shift and turn, and ultimately, it would be a woman’s world. Female presidents, more women CEOs, more women on top, not because they have to but because they want to, creating our schedules. It’s appropriate to say that as a woman in our cycles, we have times when we can do our best work and time we don’t.

We are the only creators on this planet that can do what we do as women, and like mother nature, we are also the ultimate destroyers.

I know firsthand because I’ve played with all my feminine energies. From dark to light, masculine to feminine, etc. example, when I owned my pole studio, I was in my dark feminine and masculine to create what I had. The dark feminine is my sexual essence, and my masculine energy is how I get the job done.

I’m in my lighter feminine energy stage, sitting back and using less mind, more heart, less doing, more being, less thinking, more feeling, fewer rules, more flow, less ego, and more love.

Getting to this place hasn’t been easy; it’s a lot of deep diving, changing and fighting within myself. One reason is that I’m single, so it is tough to step into my true desires. It’s been very serving to me and more of who I authentically.

It is a feeling of coming home. I’m looking forward to this new way of being. For my existence and rewriting for the future life, I want to live.

I'M COMING HOME.

CHEERS KAT

XO